{"id":373,"date":"2024-03-03T03:22:19","date_gmt":"2024-03-03T03:22:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/remoteshul.com\/?p=373"},"modified":"2024-03-03T03:22:19","modified_gmt":"2024-03-03T03:22:19","slug":"a-tisha-bav-lesson-from-moshe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/remoteshul.com\/index.php\/2024\/03\/03\/a-tisha-bav-lesson-from-moshe\/","title":{"rendered":"A Tisha B&#8217;av Lesson from Moshe"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>In August of 1967, two months after the completion of the Six Day War, then-IDF Chief Rabbi Shlomo Goren stirred up a controversy that continues to reverberate until this day.&nbsp; The controversy was religious in nature and began with a tefillah he inserted into the IDF prayerbook.&nbsp; The tefillah celebrates that our holiest city of Yerushalayim no longer lies in ruins.&nbsp; We can all agree that this is cause for celebration, but the controversy surrounded the placement of this tefillah: in the middle of shmone esray Tisha B\u2019av day, in place of the \u201cNachem\u201d paragraph printed in our siddurim.&nbsp; Rabbi Goren boldly removed the description of a \u201ccity that is in sorrow, laid waste, scorned and desolate\u201d and that \u201csits in mourning like a barren childless woman.\u201d&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In Parshat Yitro we read of Yitro\u2019s advice to Moshe to improve the judicial system.&nbsp; Rather than having Moshe stand in judgement all day and all night, he should develop a system of judges and Moshe will only adjudicate over the most difficult matters.&nbsp; In our parsha Moshe summarizes his father in law\u2019s advice:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201c\u05d4\u05b8\u05d1\u05a3\u05d5\u05bc \u05dc\u05b8\u05a0\u05db\u05b6\u05dd \u05d0\u05b2\u05e0\u05b8\u05e9\u05b4\u05c1\u05a8\u05d9\u05dd \u05d7\u05b2\u05db\u05b8\u05de\u05b4\u05a7\u05d9\u05dd \u05d5\u05bc\u05e0\u05b0\u05d1\u05b9\u05e0\u05b4\u059b\u05d9\u05dd \u05d5\u05b4\u05d9\u05d3\u05bb\u05e2\u05b4\u0596\u05d9\u05dd \u05dc\u05b0\u05e9\u05b4\u05c1\u05d1\u05b0\u05d8\u05b5\u05d9\u05db\u05b6\u0591\u05dd\u2026\u05c3\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cPick from each of your tribes men who are wise, discerning, and experienced\u2026\u201d (Devarim 1:13)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And two pesukim later:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201c\u05d5\u05b8\u05d0\u05b6\u05e7\u05b7\u05bc\u059e\u05d7 \u05d0\u05b6\u05ea\u05be\u05e8\u05b8\u05d0\u05e9\u05b5\u05c1\u05a3\u05d9 \u05e9\u05b4\u05c1\u05d1\u05b0\u05d8\u05b5\u05d9\u05db\u05b6\u0597\u05dd \u05d0\u05b2\u05e0\u05b8\u05e9\u05b4\u05c1\u05a4\u05d9\u05dd \u05d7\u05b2\u05db\u05b8\u05de\u05b4\u05d9\u05dd\u0599 \u05d5\u05b4\u05bd\u05d9\u05d3\u05bb\u05e2\u05b4\u0594\u05d9\u05dd \u05d5\u05b8\u05d0\u05b6\u05ea\u05b5\u05bc\u05a5\u05df \u05d0\u05b9\u05ea\u05b8\u059b\u05dd \u05e8\u05b8\u05d0\u05e9\u05b4\u05c1\u0596\u05d9\u05dd \u05e2\u05b2\u05dc\u05b5\u05d9\u05db\u05b6\u0591\u05dd\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cSo I took your tribal leaders, wise and experienced men, and appointed them heads over you..\u201d&nbsp; (Devarim 1:15)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The commentaries point out that it seems Moshe did not succeed fully.&nbsp; He searched for \u05d7\u05b2\u05db\u05b8\u05de\u05b4\u05a7\u05d9\u05dd \u05d5\u05bc\u05e0\u05b0\u05d1\u05b9\u05e0\u05b4\u059b\u05d9\u05dd \u05d5\u05b4\u05d9\u05d3\u05bb\u05e2\u05b4\u0596\u05d9\u05dd \u05dc\u05b0\u05e9\u05b4\u05c1\u05d1\u05b0\u05d8\u05b5\u05d9\u05db\u05b6\u0591\u05dd, judges who were wise, discerning, and experienced.&nbsp; He ends up with \u05d7\u05b2\u05db\u05b8\u05de\u05b4\u05d9\u05dd\u0599 \u05d5\u05b4\u05bd\u05d9\u05d3\u05bb\u05e2\u05b4\u0594\u05d9\u05dd, wise and experienced men.&nbsp; What happened to the search for \u05e0\u05b0\u05d1\u05b9\u05e0\u05b4\u059b\u05d9\u05dd, men of discernment?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rashi explains that Moshe was admitting that he was unsuccessful.&nbsp; He could not find people with all three qualities; presumably they didn\u2019t exist.&nbsp; So he was forced to settle for the wise and experienced judges, despite the fact that they were not discerning.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Moshe Rabenu is teaching us a valuable lesson through this act of integrity.&nbsp; &nbsp;Take a moment to contemplate who you know that is wise, discerning, and experienced.&nbsp; &nbsp;These are not binary character traits, everyone has some wisdom, some discernment, some experience.&nbsp; If I were searching for one of these judges, I would find the person who fits the bill best.&nbsp; But Moshe was intellectually honest.&nbsp; He knew exactly what he was looking for: a specific amount of wisdom, a specific amount of discernment, and a specific amount of experience.&nbsp; And he knew that his appointments fell short.&nbsp; He does not say they are unqualified; we would all love to be described by Moshe as possessing wisdom.&nbsp; But he admits that were lacking the credentials he sought.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we daven this Tisha B\u2019av, we will not be saying Rabbi Goren\u2019s revised edition of Nachem.&nbsp; His modifications were mostly rejected both by scholars and publishers.&nbsp; We were never mourning the physical loss of a city.&nbsp; We were mourning the spiritual loss of Yerushalayim.&nbsp; When we pray for the rebuilding of the Beit Hamikdash, we are not simply davening for a construction project.&nbsp; We pray for that spiritual clarity and to fill the void of Godlessness in a world which can feel scorned and desolate.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s been over 50 years of us having control over Yerushalayim.&nbsp; Rabbi Goren would marvel at the current State of Israel.&nbsp; But like Moshe Rabenu appointing judges, we must be honest that our goals have not been reached.&nbsp; We are thankful for what we have, but our teffilot remain unanswered.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I heard a beautiful story in the name of Rabbi Hillel Grossman who is the Rabbi in Woodridge and whose parents live in my building here in Riverdale.&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;Upon visiting a jail this week, the chaplain noticed one of the prisoners lying on a narrow cot reading a book with a smile from ear to ear.&nbsp; It looked bizarre: through the bars he sees this man in a cramped room just a few feet from a toilet relaxing with this huge smile on his face.&nbsp; So he ask the man: \u201cwhat are you smiling about?\u201d&nbsp; He responds \u201cI am living the American dream.&nbsp; I have three meals a day, we have a well-stocked gym, and I\u2019m taking courses for college.&nbsp; I am living the American dream.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s a man in a tiny little prison and he feels like he\u2019s living the American dream!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rabbi Grossman explained that that man is us.&nbsp; We are in exile. &nbsp;We have no Beit Hamikdash.&nbsp; We live in a world of rising antisemitism and hate.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We should be thankful for the physical and even spiritual comforts we have in life.&nbsp; But let\u2019s make sure over the next day to match Moshe\u2019s integrity and remind ourselves of what we are lacking this Tisha B\u2019av.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In August of 1967, two months after the completion of the Six Day War, then-IDF Chief Rabbi Shlomo Goren stirred up a controversy that continues to reverberate until this day.&nbsp; 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